2021.12.06 08:49 dustindlb Baton Rouge Police Officer Chokes A Thirteen-Year-Old Boy That Was Playing BasketBall In A Case Of Mistaken Identity While Ignoring The Desperate Pleas From His Family. This is my home town
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2021.12.06 08:49 CarobAdministrative8 How illegal is marijuana in Japan? Wondering about the legality of drugs over there
2021.12.06 08:49 DiamondsAreRareCoal Remove everything outside the game
2021.12.06 08:49 Twinning17 When they turn your neighbors against you...what do you do?
Back in 2019, I asked to separate from my ex who I suspect has an undiagnosed personality disorder. This was not an easy decision. At the time, my twins were not even 2 years old.
It has been a loooooong journey to the divorce - but I've been working with an attorney for the past year and it seems we may have a final agreement signed off very soon. Like - I could be divorced in the next two weeks and I'm super excited!!!!
As everyone knows, when you ask for a divorce, it can be a very huge surprise to literally everyone in your life. There's a bunch of stages associated, right?
People on all sides process it, then they decide if they want to stay friendly with the other side and to what extent. At this point, we've gotten to a place where I know who is keeping the line of communication open with me on his side, out of all of his family and friends that were formerly OUR family and friends.
I'm happy to report that there are no major issues here. The people I really like and want in my kids lives are still talking/friendly with me and seem to kind of understand why all of this is happening.
However - I'm in a weird spot in my neighborhood and hoping to get some feedback on how to proceed.
I moved to my current area when my kids were newborns. My family and friends do not live close by, so I don't know anyone here.
The first two years of twins is survival mode. Add the abuse into that, and I was just focused on getting through each hour of the day. I never had time to really meet anyone or make friends.
My ex is very charasmatic and during those first two years he spent his free time (while I watched the kids most of the time) becoming best friends with all of the husbands and wives on my street. I didn't really get as close with everyone but tried to be as nice and friendly as possible when I did interact with them.
Needless to say, when everyone found out we were separated, things got super awkward. I was hoping this would pass, especially after my ex finally moved out last year, but it seems to have gotten worse.
All of the wives on my block are ice cool to me and pretty much ignore/avoid me at all costs. They're also all still really good friends with my ex. They actually invite him to events - on my street - and don't tell me about them. They used to send us holiday cards when my ex was living here (even during the separation) but now they send it to his new address.
I'm constantly trying to smile and be nice and friendly when I see these people - because they have kids too and I'd love for my kids to be friends with them - but they aren't having it.
The icing on the cake was the other night when I brought my kids to a holiday event in my town. Saw two of the wives, tried to make eye contact to say hi, and both ignored me.
Now I'm like - ok; what do I do? I have a therapist, she told me just ignore it. I spoke to a family member and they told me to move LOL. Moving is not a realistic option right now. Plus - I actually like my area!
This feels so utterly high school and ridiculous. It's not like I can go up to these people and say "sorry I didn't have a chance to get to know you while I was exhausted and being abused! PS. You're friends with my abuser and that's kind of uncomfortable for me! Happy holidays!"
My ex still comes by once in a while to hang with the neighbors, or when he comes to visit/pick up the kids. I keep it very amicable on the surface for the sake of my children.
The abuse was very covert. There's no way what was happening is apparent to people. So not sure what they think or what he tells them.
When I was growing up, my mom was a very negative person and really didn't want to get close to anyone in my town. She definitely got a reputation and I know it had social implications for me. I don't want this for my kids!
My plan right now is to find friends in my town through other avenues. For example, I'm currently looking to join a church that I can become a part of. Start getting involved in other community activities/committees.
But - now that it's the holiday season, I'm like - what do I do about my neighbors? Do I try to smooth this over? Give everyone a friendly card? Or should I stay in my lane, keep it civil, and wait for organic opportunities to interact arrive?
How does everyone handle stuff like this?
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2021.12.06 08:49 boilinoil DAE think Gargano is getting Adam Cole's main roster run
2021.12.06 08:49 kkingfisherr How to delete Amazon Alexa voice history?
2021.12.06 08:49 TreeTurtle_852 Based on the next matchup
2021.12.06 08:49 aprilhillwriting Thoughts [oc]
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2021.12.06 08:49 weenphisher76 Until the conman is in prison, there will be no rest.
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2021.12.06 08:49 Theories_Dawg Hang on..
I have a pretty dark theory..
What if Prince Tuesday is actually pedophile and he actually likes one of the kids there like my closest guess would be Miss Elaine JR like is anyone disturbed by the fact that no teenagers live around the area like it would make sense a bit, considering he might fall in love with one of the kids instead of someone close to his age.. but who?
My bet would most likely be Miss Elaine JR
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2021.12.06 08:49 Ishi-no-Yanagi Aurora borealis as a woman.
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2021.12.06 08:49 seatcushiontreasures Favorite story so far?
2021.12.06 08:49 frugalityinperson The Egyptian Pyramids are at risk!
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2021.12.06 08:49 Melon_Fun0117 Possible pre-wipe event?
Hey all, I was playing some late night interchange raids and as I was about to extract I saw Tagilla on interchange. I don't know if it is a pre wipe event or just another dynamic event like they have done before, but regardless, I saw Tagilla on Interchange.
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2021.12.06 08:49 my-spotless-mind Unmatched me after one snap
I match with a girl who looks really decent we have a good convo back and forth for a day and I ask for her snap she doesn’t reply all of a sudden for a day so I follow up. She asks for mine and adds a day later.
She has a snap score of 1 mil. But I say hi anyway she says hi back and unadds me. Crazy if you ask or I’m just hideous lol
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2021.12.06 08:49 NiDBiLD Cathedrals
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2021.12.06 08:49 pengwingsyay Trying to be confident.
Low confidence has been one of the main issues in my life. Bad posture. Bad eye contact. Fidgety hands. Daily reminders of insecurities. It's crazy how lack of confidence has been the main source of most of my problems. I compare myself to other people. I unconsciously pull them down to make myself feel better. I excessively worry about what other people think of me to the point where I just don't do anything. Everyone seems to be better than me. I can't do anything right. I think about how I'm never gonna be good enough because I'm bad at this and worse at that. Everything, and I mean everything, points to my lack of self-confidence. I have had enough.
One of the reasons why I slunk back into this mindset is because I know I'm not the smartest. I do not know everything, which is why I might make a stupid mistake and fear that people will point and laugh. But now, I'm reminding myself that no one knows everything and everyone, even the people whom I regard to be perfect and put-together, make stupid mistakes too. No one is alone. The key is to convey, not convince.
This change is easier said than done. I've always been extremely shy and socially anxious but I'm hoping for at least some progress.
If you have the same dilemma as me, or at least somewhat similar to it, I'm proud of you for choosing to make a change. I know for a fact that this is very difficult, but not impossible. I hope we enter and end the year 2022 with confidence and love for who we are!
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2021.12.06 08:49 maxiko [WTS] CAA MCK for your Glock brand Glock on the cheap. (LA)
The is the model with out the o light etc. FDE later painted and coated to white. $175 cash or $125 cash and $50 trade value if you have anything super interesting for that $50. I’m actually looking for a new cummerbund for a multicam black lv119. Enjoy.
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2021.12.06 08:49 YanniFromPakistanni BeMesmerized. Navy divers. Don't forget to breathe and exhale on the way up.
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2021.12.06 08:49 DannyMcDanface1 Gene edited sex selection may spare animal suffering
2021.12.06 08:49 emmvxy [Round 104056] name the 9 items in the order given in the image, and then name the 6 missing entries
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2021.12.06 08:49 Purrrrurin I made a bodys cover! :)
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2021.12.06 08:49 nickaoo Getting ready for Xiao rerun
| In terms of materials, I think I'm ready. Primogems on the other hand..|
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